Anakh (Respecting oneself)

I saw this on Facebook & immediately felt the need to respond, maybe I should not have:

I think is the fundamental dichotomy between the western (herculean/alexandrical) thought  & eastern (Guru Nanak/Budha) thought.

I think the Sikh way to understand life would be: Do respect yourself enough,  not be served but to serve, not grow but to nurture & not to be happy but spread joy. 

I feel...
If it always about me, the universe will make sure I never feel served, fool myself into believing I am growing & getting happier...

I may be totally wrong, though.